Marriage Tool Box
Many organizations, public institutions, and private groups have developed enrichment programs. The best ones teach couples the skills they need to make their marriages strong, satisfying, and enduring!
Dating
Dating is crucial to keep your marriage exciting and to reignite the spark you two have on a regular basis. When couples continue to date after getting married, they develop better communication skills, are usually much happier and more committed to each other,
Conflict Resolution
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Don't blame your spouse!
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Stick to one situation at a time! "It's NOT about the cup!"
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Express your feelings with honor!
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Make sure the end goal is fair!
Communication
"Communication is key"
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Be clear: Make sure your message is clear and understood by your partner.
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Be an active listener: Put aside your own thoughts and try to understand your partner's feelings, needs, and wants.
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Use "I" statements: Express your feelings and needs using "I" statements like "I feel", "I want", and "I need".
Life Balance: Marriage, Careers, Kids, & Family
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Make time for each other as much as possible
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Create a family daily plan or schedule
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Live with margin
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Be affectionate every chance you get
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Set Boundaries for children
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Communicate
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Balance work life
